Sep. 27th, 2002

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The bedroom is hereby declared finished. I did the touch-up painting, I painted the inside of the window frames, I restained the windowsills where they had gotten water damaged, I cleaned up the mess and vacuumed the floor, and I put back all the switchplates and outlet covers. And on top of all that, I also stained the risers of the main staircase (which had been damaged in the process of removing the carpets, lo these many moons ago), and stained the front door, which was water damaged from exposure to the elements.

And I only started after ten pm, because I went to Culpeppers with the STL Bloggers until 8:00, and then came home hoping for an ACW game. After waiting a few minutes I found that Paul had sent his regrets, so I read the Riverfront Times and then went to get started on the project.

At which moment the phone rang. It was Ray, wanting to discuss further his plans to apply for an annulment. And I now go off into a rant about it )
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Secrecy reigns, apparently. I can't seem to find anyone who has posted the questions on an annulment questionnaire. Maybe it's my search terms: if anyone out there does find one, let me know, k?

I just want to know what kind of stuff they're going to ask me.
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Why is this annulment thing preying on my mind? I'm not Catholic, I really don't believe that annulment accomplishes anything whatsoever, and we're already divorced. Is it that I'm worried he's going to make me out to be some kind of evil scheming bitch? (You there, in the peanut gallery, shut up. That's not what I meant and you know it.) That he's going to claim he had perfect consent and commitment when we married but I did not?

Everything I'm reading talks about "at the moment of the vows" as what matters for validity of a marriage. Changes of heart afterward seem irrelevant.

These are from that webpage I linked earlier this morning.

Reason by reason )

Does this exercise tell me anything? Other than that in some sense I'm offended by the whole idea that we weren't really married? That I'm irritated at potentially being painted the villain of the case?

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